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| Author: Gabe |
Whether you��re a guy looking to learn the fine art of oral sex or a girl who loves oral, its all the same when it comes down to technique and style��. I must say I have a lot of respect for all the guys who like to go down on a woman because there are too few out there. If more guys only knew that giving good head would make them rank higher in a woman��s list than Don Juan; they��d be lining up to learn this art form��I��ve heard it from women time and time again. Furthermore, some of the guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she knows it. She won't even tell her girlfriends about it or that guy will become the most popular man in town. So, remember, most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head, he's got it made.
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Go ahead, don��t hold back tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Now stop and look at what you see.
Beautiful, isn't it?
There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her vagina. Vaginas come in all different sizes, colors, shapes, scents and tastes; some are tucked inside and are begging to be found and others have thick luscious lips that are more than willing to come out greet you. Some are nestled in fur and others are either shaved (my favorite) or covered with smooth peach fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and make sure to tell her what makes her special. Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her; the easier it will be to get her off.
What does this mean to you in actionable terms? Well silly, that means all the time you're petting and stroking, licking and sucking her beautiful womanhood, talk to her about it; be verbal. Now look at her vagina some more��. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, lick them if you want. Now spread the top of her womanhood up until you can find her clitoris. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like guys have different sized penis��. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Whenever you touch a woman's vagina, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with her juices. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clitoris; the clitoris doesn't have any juices of its own and it's EXTREMELY sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that painful.
But you don't want to touch her clitoris anyway. You have to work up to that. Unlike men women take much more time to become aroused and need to be mentally as well as physically stimulated before getting to that point. Before she becomes excited, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her parting slowly.
Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, and make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her vagina, and then float away. Make her squirm with anticipation. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her vagina. Nuzzle your face into her bush (if she��s bare, then where her bush would be). Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her.
After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her vaginal lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Make love to her with your tongue. To her this will feel divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clitoris.
Check it out.
See if her clitoris has gotten hard enough to peek out of its covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. Bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience its presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it.
Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the vaginal lips away and flick your tongue against the clitoral hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clitoris into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder.
Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clitoris. For gods sake don't let go. She��ll be screaming at the top of her lungs: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!'
There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon.
There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can insert a finger or two in her while she's enjoying your clitoral-licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clitoris, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're having intercourse.
Well, since your penis is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the penetration. One finger is too skinny and three is too wide and won��t allow for deep penetration; therefore two fingers is just what the doctor ordered. Take two fingers. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Move inside her rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do.
If you're sucking her clitoris and stimulating her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your penis alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clitoris. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clitoris, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her vagina. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? If you can make her have multiple orgasm��s do you understand what would happen to your relationship; whether you��re a guy or girl��. Lets be frank and quite clear with this: She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her orgasm by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down.
A man can orgasm and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself. |
Author Bio:
Gabe is an editor and contributor at Viibs.com. Viibs is an excellent resource for all your sex toy, vibrator, dildo and dong needs. You will also undoubtedly find the Viibs sex blog an excellent source for sexual musings and thoughts.
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